TEENS AND SEX

The changing orientation of every individual develops and opens various unforeseen possibilities that may either corrupt or harness one self. In reality, one possesses no permanence, for life even is not inoperative. True that human will always search for something pleasant, enjoyable and satisfying.

Premarital Sex among teens is either way not an old story to us; this has been a customary issue ever since affecting at large most teenagers of different countries of different cultures and of different concepts, a moving truth that many holds no strength to keep one self from temptation and danger, from an instant indulgence of oneself, and to keep distant from a compromising situation and edge opportunities from too much delight of freedom. This is the record of how changes evolved among teenagers, a change where we become fatal and most of us end as criminals. A victim resorting to concession of one self and a criminal exceedingly responding to one’s fervor and passion.

We have learned that environment; age of partner and perceived family support may affect young people's decisions to have sex. True enough that these factors don’t stand alone but with a receptive wall to every person. I always believe that we cannot gauge the maturity of every person that is why our parents are there to steer and serve the purpose of putting us into the best path, but in most cases, our parents may not be there to monitor or bequeath us the best advice to help us weigh our decisions, or bestow suggestive positive means for us to consider whenever possible. So I believe that we should take an open and positive allotment of respect among ourselves, otherwise when we scarcely take their thoughts and words; we deem that the rest of our actions will be fully taken charged by us, sometimes good but taken not seriously at times, and so teenagers end up weeping for a consequence brought after finding their newly discovered path.

Our environment unfolding and recounting every layers of our innocence, from the advancement of technology allowing our minds to be reached by unaccepted ideas and practices and overconfidence of media brought every young girls and boys into a deeper, more dangerous risk. Sex becoming a social partiality to teenagers has reformed them as less sensible, irresponsible individuals with no brighter eye looking for the future.

Age of difference becoming a consideration to this issue also comes with an immense rewind. I believe that number/age doesn’t matter in making pronouncement but it should be coupled with maturity and preparedness to liability. I openly do not spare myself from this issue as I have come across this set-up and I became an assassin of my own conscience and took menace of my future. Things I believe are the same for those who unfortunately came with an unexpected and startling responsibility after doing so, but in the end, we keep and we will remain track of ourselves and this is an unfolding truth for every individual be an adult or a teenager.