be tactful.be discreet.be humble and brave

these are just few of the many reasons to maintain and sustain a relationship. and perhaps you have something not so good to say about something, then say it. confront the concerned people. when you would like to blit your right to say what you want, then say it. and we will answer your concern right away. just let us know. and you'll see..stop badmouthing.stop complaining without asking for explanation. its a chicken shit which will only prove your being coward, boastful, tactless and insincerity....